Opportunity

April 24, 2020

Every day is full of moments. Moments charged with opportunity.

You are probably familiar with the iconic National Geographic photo of a grizzly bear just about to close his mouth on a salmon that is literally jumping into his mouth. That photo, taken by Joel Sartore in 1999, speaks to us because it perfectly captures a singular moment of opportunity. An opportunistic moment is something a whole lot of folks are hoping will come their way, especially now as they wait at home for the current crisis to pass. They are waiting for their moment.

Do you think Joel, or the bear for that matter, waited for that moment? How many fish do you suppose the bear missed before he caught that one? How many fish did he catch before or after in a much less choreographed—perhaps even awkward—manner? Do you suppose that was Joel’s only shot of the day, or do you imagine he took lots and lots of shots before luck and skill came together and he captured that one?

Here’s the thing: it’s easy to miss a million little moments of opportunity when you are waiting for the perfect big opportunity. This pattern of waiting is especially easy to fall into when you are grieving or are overwhelmed with care giving. The sad thing is that just when a person would benefit the most from little shining moments, those moments pass by unnoticed. 

So open your eyes and look. When your caregiving duties have you up in the night, just take a moment to look at the night sky. When you are connecting with a friend or relative over the phone, see if you can make them smile. Nothing warms the heart like making another person smile. 

Grief and loss are difficult. Caregiving can feel thankless. The state of the world can seem hopeless. Still, every single day comes with many little moments that can lighten the load. They are there. However, you have to be open and make the effort to see the opportunity.

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Bissler & Sons Funeral Home and Crematory has served families in Kent, Ohio, and all of Portage County since 1913. The company transitioned ownership in 2018 when Rick Bissler retired and arranged to merge his family’s funeral home with the Billow family’s funeral homes, who carry on the tradition of high quality funeral, burial, memorial and cremation services. Their privately owned and operated crematory ensures that loved ones never leave their professional care. Visit bisslerandsons.com to learn more.
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